“Marriage is not a reward for good behaviour” – Simi to a Pastor who spoke on sexual responsibility

Singer Simi is not one to shy yonder from what she believes in.

The music star has reacted to a sermon delivered by Lagos pastor Kingsley Okonkwo where he was talking well-nigh sexual responsibility with claims that God made men be increasingly free-spirited than women.

“God put so much sexual passion in men, expecting that women will obey him by doing ‘access denied!’ so that when he wants so much sex he should marry. So, he will requite you what you want and you will requite him what he wants. That is how God planned it. But many women have been sabotaging themselves,” Kingsley Okonkwo said in one video uploaded on his official Instagram.

In flipside frame, the pastor went remoter to say the reason men are not getting married is that they are sexually satisfied.

“So, many women have been sabotaging themselves by giving it out,” Okonkwo added.

However, Simi said the message is infuriating and that everyone should be held responsible for their own actions.

“Everyone is responsible for their actions. Women are not donkeys to be delivering everyone’s burden. Women make mistakes too. Women get tempted too. Women fight their battles too. And women are responsible for their own actions. Might as well say God made women increasingly emotionally vulnerable considering God expected men to not take wholesomeness of them. It’s just wrong,” Simi offered.

Kingsley Okonkwo responded to her scuttlebutt on his page, saying that the intention of his message was not to assuage one gender from owning up to their actions.
“My message is quite clear… It hasn’t demeaned or but [sic] responsibility on just one sex. I can’t interpret for everyone,” The pastor commented.

Simi noted that the pastor could influence people’s thought while moreover encouraging him to be shielding his teachings.

“As a pastor, a lot of people take your word for it, plane though as Christians, we all have wangle to God and His word. But you have this responsibility, please be shielding with it.”

Simi went remoter to reiterate how offensive the message was to her when she heard it.